Thursday, July 22, 2010

Not so Buenas Noches...

There is no way I can go to sleep without sharing this with someone!

I was just in the bathroom right before bed and some sort of creature ran OVER my foot (well, it ran into then over my foot). It went so fast that I wouldn't have known what it was, but then it somehow began to wiggle it's body under the closed door of the bathroom, which took a little while, so I got a good look at it's legs flailing about... They were most definitely the legs of a MOUSE!! I didn't scream...or even stop my nightly routine of washing my face, but now I'm thinking of the fact that there is a mouse loose in my house. I could just shut my door and feel safe, but: 
A) It could have run into my room while I was finishing my face washing
B) I have seen this mouse in action and know that it is a crazy contortionist mouse that can squeeze it's body under doors (including my shut bedroom door)

Really though, if I'm being honest with myself...I am a little too tired to care and these little occurrences luckily don't stick with me for too long, so I have a feeling that I am going to turn off the computer and fall into bed without a second thought...hopefully ;)

P.S. This finally explains the creature that jumped out of my closet and ran  across my foot my first week here! The little bugger got away so fast that I never really figured out what it was...now I know!

Buenas Noches!!

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Cervesas and Guaguas and Playas...Oh My!!

This was definitely a fun-filled...and interesting weekend!

On Friday, we had a free day, so 5 of us decided to hop on a guagua and take the two and a half hour trip to a beach called Cabarete. We got there, and the beach was beautiful! We all haven't been to the beach in a while, so we were slowly but surely losing our golden, Dominican tans (okay, maybe not golden...but I am working on not glowing white!) So, our main objective for the day was to soak up some rays...the only problem was that there was rain in the forecast, which usually doesn't mean much because the weather is rather fickle and ever-changing here! We layed out on the beach right away, and within 20 minutes, rather ominous looking clouds started rolling in. We didn't make a move though because, like I said, we were desperate for sun! It stared to lightly sprinkle, but what does a little rain hurt? Really, it just served to cool us off nicely :) We stuck it out for a little while until it started pouring, at which point we took shelter in a restaurant set on the beach where we got drinks and an awesome pizza! As we were sitting in the restaurant looking out at the ocean, I was feeling a little sad about missing out on the beach when we were so dang close. So I decided to do the one thing I knew could fix our dilemma....I ran out of the restaurant, down the beach, and jumped in the ocen! We all had a blast swimming in the rain!!
Right after that, we made our way to the street to get on a guagua to come back home, and that was an adventure in and of itself! The guagua we got into had at least 25 people packed into a van that is only supposed to hold 14...needless to say, our little group of five was packed quite tightly together and the ridiculousness of it got me laughing. Anyone who knows me well knows that I do not have the most inconspicuos laugh...there is my snort and then there is the deep wheeze that occurs when I can't breathe, but I desperately gasp for air. I started laughing so hard that I definitely started wheezing! All of a sudden, we hear someone behind us with a thick British accent say, "What on earth is that noise??" (Simultaneously, we were asking ourselves the same question because it is not everyday that you hear a British accent in the middle of the Dominican Republic). It was then that we turned around and met Steve Martin (no, not the Father of the Bride, but rather a man from London who moved to the DR seven years ago to retire). He was a lovely man and he let us all know the benefits of retiring and moving someplace where the cost of living is dirt cheap :) We also met a man on the guagua who told me that he was crazy for me and would like to marry me...But that is a whole other story!

It's funny because that day we spent more time on the guaguas getting to and from our destination than we did at the actual destination, but that just goes to show you that your joy really should be found in the journey!

The next day, Saleena and I were invited to go with her papa and his co-workers on a company trip to a beach called Ensenada. We jumped at the chance to go to a beach without the APU group because we need to practice our Spanish every chance we can get! We got on the bus to head out to the beach at 9 that morning, and the first order of business was to open up the cooler at the front of the bus and pass out beers to all of the employees... and that continued to be the theme for the rest of the day! I rarely saw someone without a Presidente in their hand! Saleena and I definitely got the sun we were looking for the day before...we both got rather burnt. But, we also got the Spanish practice we were looking for! It's funny because a lot of people here like when they meet Americans because they want the chance to practice their English, but we have to explain that we came here to learn and study Spanish, so they need to help us practice our Spanish. Sometimes I will have conversations where the person I am talking to will speak in English and I will speak in Spanish so we can both practice! I had some of those kinds of conversations at the beach that day, but after awhile when someone would speak to me in English I would say "No entiendo. Yo solo entiendo espanol!" That ended up working because a lot of the people really appreciate that we so badly want to learn their language. On the bus ride home Saleena and I were really tired so we tried to sleep, seeing as it was a three hour bus ride! This goal quickly proved to be impossible though because the men on the bus were still having their fill of beer, thus the noise level on the bus rose dramatically. It didn't help when a man from teh back of the bus came up and sat on the cooler in front of our seats telling us that we were not, in fact, allowed to be tired and that we needed to talk to him! All of my desire to sleep completely left me when I saw the bus driver with the steering wheel in one hand and a bottle of beer in the other!! Things are so very different here!! Now don't worry too much... because as you can tell, I made it home safely :)

On Sunday we had our three hour long church service (it is crazy to me that three hours of church no longer feels like a long time!), went back to my tia's house and ate lunch, then headed to Mao, which is a town in a more rural area about an hour away from Santiago where mi abuelo lives. We sat on the porch and drank the best lemonade I have ever tasted and ate green bananas. You may be thinking, "Why did you eat bananas that weren't ripe?" But here, they have bananas where they do nothing to speed up the ripening process, so they are completely natural and they stay green...yummy! After, we went to the river right near my abuelo's house to go for a swim...or rather, a sit :) I have gotten very good at just sitting while I have been here! Dominicans will be the first to admit that they are not the most active people, so it is completely natural to go to the river, find yourself a spot to dig in and resist the current, then just sit there and let the water hit you...While we did relax, we also found time to get in a big splashing fight with my entire family too, which was quite a sight to behold! The family decided to change before we got back in the car to leave, which meant creating makeshift dressing rooms out of towels we all switched off holding up for one another. Normally, not a big deal...I did that all growing up when my family would go to the beach... However, as a small, white girl in California I did not create quite as much of a stir as a now tall, white girl in the Dominican! As I have said before, Americans here often become the spectacle, and it was no different on Sunday. As Saleena and I changed behind the saftey of the towels held up by our families, we gained a bit of an audience with some boys who made it no mystery that they were hoping the towels would mysteriously fall or fly away. Luckily, our families were quite vigilant in keeping us safe from the prying eyes, but that didn't keep them from laughing at us for the scene we had created!

We drove back to Santiago the long way so our families could show us all of the different products grown throughout the countryside...I love how here, going the "long way" or stopping on the side of the road to pick up pinecones (yes, we have done this!) or spending an extra 45 minutes after church to take everyone home or being late to work to have an important conversation with someone aren't even second thoughts here. Here, time almost doesn't exist because the importance is found in the event itself...not what time it was supposed to start or what time it should be done so you can move onto the next thing...I'm convinced that if someone took all of the clocks out of Santiago, no one here would put up much of a fight ;)

Kisses and hugs!! (I'm so excited that I will be able to start giving these in person so very soon!! Only 2 weeks and 3 days left!!)

Monday, July 12, 2010

27 days and counting!!

I have definitely loved my experience here and I know I still have lots more to learn, but the countdown has definitely started! I feel like everyone in the group is in a very similar place right now...we have all loved it here, but we're feeling a little homesick! I think it is the realization that the end is so close, and yet in some ways still so far away...
I think it doesn't help that this is one of the hottest months of the year, all of our tummies are not extremely happy with the food right now, and my parents being here from the US definitely reminded everyone of home!

The rest of my parent's trip here was great! We got to spend time at the pool (a very hot commodity here, seeing as the only other time I have had access to a pool here was at the resort I went to), we went out to dinner with everyone from the APU group, we had some awesome conversations, I got to sleep in their AIR CONDITIONED hotel room, and we got to have a goodbye dinner with mis padres and go to see my church afterward. I was just so thrilled taht my parents got to see all of the things here that are completely impossible to describe with words... All in all, an incredible time! But, I realized at the end that before they were here, I had definitely done a good job of compartmentalizing them and pushing them to the back of my mind...But them being here obviously made them jump right back to the front of my mind again!

For some reason, I think that my parents coming signaled the end of the trip for me, but I have another month left! This is where my lessons on "just being" come in, and I need to just jump right back into life here and take in every single moment, appreciating the beauty of what I have here because it really is going to be done before I know it! I try to take snapshots in my mind of everything here that is so wonderful and so dear to my heart like mis padres standing and worshipping together in church, or the silly look mi hermana gets on her face after she's told me how to say a bad word in Spanish (hehe), or how much I revel in the idea of a cold shower at the end of a day, or how ridiculous it is when we are able to squish 16 people in our 6-seater car after church because we need to make sure that everyone has a ride home, or how, when the power goes out right before bed, my entire family will lay on the tile floor of the front porch because that is the coolest part of the house...

I love my life here...sometimes I just need to remind myself of the moments that I will miss when I get back to the United States because, although I get tired sometimes and just want to be home, I am so blessed to be having this experience that will forever be a milestone that I look back on with great joy!

Monday, July 5, 2010

Things that make you go hmmm...

So, here in the DR, there are things almost daily that perplex and puzzle me...and generally just make me laugh out loud :) I will share some with you:

-Sometimes it is a little disconcerting when you walk into a nice restraunt and they have a sign on the door specifying that you cannot in fact bring your firearm in with you...

-More disconcerting when entering the mall and not only is there a sign saying you can't bring in your firearm, but also that you can't bring your machete in with you either...

-Even more disconcerting when the officer on the street with his large gun (which he is allowed to have because he is neither in the nice restaurant or the mall) feels that it is okay to whistle and me and try to get my attention...I am sorry sir, but you have a very large gun which I feel you should be paying more attention to than me!

-The sign in the corner store that says you are not allowed to drink alcoholic beverages in the store before you have purchased them...as I stand behind two men in line enjoying their Presidente cervesas :)

- The concho driver giving me 25 pesos so I can fully extend my arm to try and reach across to another concho driver to make change while we sit at a stoplight (good thing I have monkey arms!)

...as of now I can remember nothing else, though I promise these perplexing moments occur mutiple times daily!!

On another note... MY PARENTS ARE HERE!!! I was a very happy girl yesterday when I got to go to meet my parents at their hotel, get a drink with them and share how life is here, have a wonderful cuddle time with my mommy, then take them (in a concho! Mom did not like the experience so much...she made me promise we'll take a taxi from now on while they're here :) ) to mi casa where they got to meet my incredible familia and have dinner all together! Seriously one of my best nights here...having my two sets of parents who I love so incredibly much finally in the same room together getting to meet the people I talk so much about was so....I don't even know how to describe it...but it was wonderful!

Love to you all :)